As I chose ok I realized Iwas SO wrong to have okayed the RootsMagic message... about continuing to use the same John....
David's father is John. Entered details. Realised his details were for David's BROTHER John and not their father.
So now David's brother and father have the same number and details.... (oh, and two more generations above that!)
So If I remove John the father - that will remove John the son (and the other Johns)
BUT will that delete the whole family down the line????? Please help? Chris