You need a FTM program to import the very old version of FTM file and then export it as a gedcom file. RM7 needs a gedcom for import unless perhaps FTM 2014 or earlier.
The 2-2-12 date is probably when FTM last saved your data file meaning it was a very old version. FTM 2017 is about to be replaced by 2019.
Windows 7 is a good OS but with only 4 GB ram you probably have a very old and ram-limited computer.
If you send Renee your FTM file via Firefox Send large file she can probably convert it for you and send it back. (https://send.firefox.com)